Okay, so here's the scoop. Either I haven't shared or I shared and forgot but our lease is coming due this summer and we're planning a move. The thing is we haven't quite decided where. We live in Western Washington and while it's home we have some major complaints like traffic, expense, and weather. We do have my side of the family in the area, which regular-ish readers will know is a lot of cons with some pros.
A few years back we were talking about moving and where we would live if we could live anywhere in the states. Apparently I mentioned Utah because I figured it was somewhere that wasn't too southern or eastern or western but had more sun and all the modern necessities we need (including ECT). The idea took hold and the hubby started researching. Places with more sun, places with less traffic, violence, and expense. We even took a trip to Salt Lake City to see if things appealed to us-they did.
I was shocked that I loved the mountains there.... so different from the big green tree-y mountains here. The dry heat wasn't sapping my life force, it was invigorating. For once in my life I could imagine a life without mold and moss (don't get me wrong I still have large portions of my heart dedicated to ferns and slugs and snails).
So life happened and we stayed where we were. For then. Now it's coming up again especially since the hubster has a mostly remote job.
It's AGONY not knowing what's going to happen. Here or there? There are some days just full of anxiety and worries and there are days when I seem to be fine and then I'll be struck by a sense of foreboding, be stunned by the strength of a random spring of anxiety and then realize it's all about the move and not knowing.
So we are in limbo at the moment. Lots of talks, lots of thoughts, lots of anxiously waiting for life's path to reveal itself.
Good luck at this anxious time. I follow two birding blogs written by Utah residents and am blown away at the wildlife and the scenery.
ReplyDeleteThat is exciting since I love birds!
DeleteI would do some research and see what the restrictions may be in Utah right now and if there is any advice about moving as safely as possible during this time. Going there will be an adjustment too but if the things you need are in place, what would be the benefits or not of moving...Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI have made three major moves in my adult life and they all have been very stressful for me. Some because moving is a hassle and some because of the unknowns. However, each decision was made with a logical mind, instead of an emotional one, and they were all very good for us. After we get settled, I am always glad that we did them. Good luck. BTW, I have visited Utah and loved it.
ReplyDeleteMoving somewhere new can be exciting but also overwhelming, but with proper research I've no doubt you will make the choice that works best for you and your family!
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